The Cheer That Sticks
Researchers tracking toddlers over five years found that parents who praised effort and strategy — not just natural ability — raised kids more likely to welcome challenges and believe they could improve, according to a study covered by ScienceDaily. "Good job trying that again" builds something "You're so talented" can't: the belief that trying is what makes you better.
Try this
Cheer the Attempt, Not the Shot
Try swapping "You're such a good shooter!" for "You lined it up and went for it!" It's a small edit, but it points their pride at the doing, not just the outcome.
Catch It Before the Basket Goes In
Some families cheer loudest in the moment of effort — the wind-up, the retry, the wobble before the shot — instead of waiting for the swish.
So when your kid nails it on the first try, what do you find yourself cheering for?
When your kid nails it on the first try, what do you find yourself cheering for?
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